3 Sex Tips Every Man Ought to Know (An Open Letter To Men Who Want to Be Better in Bed)
What really turns a woman on? Why do women take so much longer to have an orgasm, than men do? Does size matter? And if not… WHY not? Any of these questions sound familiar? If you are anything like the tens of thousands of men who enjoy our articles on sex, dating and relationships, they probably do, right?
Do you ever find yourself wondering if there are any REAL ‘secrets’ to being great in bed? There is nothing more mysterious than what TRULY turns a woman on, and once you discover, she’ll be yours forever, I promise!
Curious to know more? Continue reading as we take a quick look at 3 simple sex tips every man ought to know.
Rule #1: Communication is the ultimate aphrodesiac
Here is the thing, guys. Women are wired differently than you are. Our most erogenous zone is actually between our ears, and NOT between our legs! There are many wild and wonderful ways you can turn her on with words, both before, during and AFTER sex alike. (hint… what you say to her AFTER sex is equally as important to what you say to her BEFORE as well. Why? Because unless it’s a one time thing, the pillow talk you have after you’re finished, is really like foreplay for the next time you make love!)
Rule #2: Don’t finish too fast! (and if you must, do THIS next)
Yes, men tend to climax too quickly during sex. But the truth is, you don’t need to end there. Women love foreplay, and if you truly want her to crave you, you can’t leave her unsatisfied all that often. If you find yourself climaxing too quickly, simply spend more time focused on foreplay BEFORE you have sex.
Why? Because most women can climax fairly quickly from foreplay (within 10 minutes if you know what you’re doing!) and this will remove the pressure from having to make her orgasm during intercourse itself.
Another quick rule? Most women have trouble achieving orgasm during intercourse. Why? Because believe it or not, her most sensitive spots are far too deep in her body for most men to hit, or reach during intercourse. The G-spot, for example, is typically out of reach for most men, unless you pick the perfect position, or you are well endowed enough to reach it on your own.
Rule #3: Experiment & Embrace the erotic adventure! (and try new things)
Women love to experiment in bed. The funny thing? While most men are in far more of a rush to have sex for the FIRST time, most women are far more adventurous, curious and even aggressive for NEW things later on. (when men can be a bit more old fashioned, and even ‘boring’ in bed) Ask her what she likes and then take some chances. Do interesting, erotic things and try them in new places, too!
Women love a man who can take control when it comes to turning her on, and no matter what you look like, how big you are, or what your body type is, there is nothing a woman finds sexier than a man who is creative and adventurous between the sheets!